Honestly, I’m not going to go to just anyone for advice anymore. Because unless you find the right person, the one you go to can manipulate you into believing something that’s not true. They can make you feel inferior, anxious, and confused. You won’t be any less lost than you were from the start.

They can make you feel stupid.

If I want to get with him, I’ll get with him. If I want to smoke, I’ll smoke. If I want to spend money, I’ll spend money. Frankly, I don’t care if you think this isn’t a good idea, because in my eyes it’s good enough for me.